No one else need reply...
Let me start by saying that I enjoy your postings and I respect your ability to get your particular point of view across without attacking individuals or degrading them or appearing mean spirited etc. and so on...
But anyways I'm just curious about something.
I wrote an article about the Boy Scouts of America and a particular chapter's decision to kick out a retarded boy. You took the time to read it and respond and I thank you for that. Your response was a question about whether or not I had children. I found it curious but really didn't think about it and I answered and moved on.
However, in a recent article about gay marriage, your first response to the poster was to ask if she was married or not. You then went on to analogize between a single person making a judgment about gay marriage to a non-golfer arguing for a rule change in golf.
I agree that there are certain things that one cannot have as informed a say in if they do not share those particular experiences. Not being a parent, I cannot really give advise on parenting. However, I can make informed decisions about it and have rational opinions. That is why there is no "having been a parent" requirement to have children. Similarly, only a small percentage of the population has been president, however, they are all allowed to for the presidency.
I don't have kids, but I feel I'm educated enough to comment on what I feel are discriminatory actions against a particular child by a specific organization. I am also single, but I don't feel that that makes me any less able to discuss the issue of gay marriage, and I don't think it takes any validity from my point of view.
I was just wondering why your first response was what it was in these cases, since I think that your analogy falls short.